In Aggabai Sunbai, poor Shubhra’s world has upturned ever since she has caught Soham with Suzanne. That too, on her wedding anniversary! She’s as it is going through so much and to catch her husband with someone else must have shattered her completely. Her plight reminds us of Radhika from Mazhya Navyrachi Bayko who got cheated on by her husband as well. That is why we think Shubhra can take some tips from her on how to cope with infidelity and handle this situation. Read on.
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1. It’s him, not you!
Shubhra can learn from Radhika that it is only the cheater’s fault. The only person responsible for Soham’s actions is he himself. Radhika kept thinking maybe she wasn’t a good wife and that’s why her husband cheated. But that is not true at all, he did it because he wanted to and that’s all on him. Similarly, Shubhra must not that think it is her fault in any way.
2. Don’t change yourself
Even after finding out about the affair, Radhika chose to forgive him and give their marriage another shot. She wanted to change for him and become ‘better’, so he’d pay attention to her. However, all her efforts went in vain as he never cared for her. If he did, he’d not have cheated, to begin with, and Shubhra needs to realize that.
3. Don’t beg
Radhika begged for him to stay and to work on their marriage but he asked her to leave making it clear that he’s not going to leave Shanaya. Radhika not only lost her husband but her self-respect too. We really hope Shubhra knows better and handles it differently.
4. Getting closure
No matter how much Shubhra tries to make Soham realize his mistake, he may never do so. Radhika, for a very long time, waited for a genuine apology but it didn’t come as soon as it should have. She wanted Gurunath to realize how much he had wronged her, but he never did. Sometimes you may never get closure and Shubhra can learn that from Radhika’s story.
5. It’s going to be okay
Radhika was a mess after Gurunath left her for Shanaya, she thought her life was over. But, as time passed by, her wounds healed and she came out stronger and better. She didn’t even need his apology, she had learnt to move on. Likewise, Shubhra should know that no matter how difficult it may seem right now – it’s all going to get better.
We really hope Shubhra makes it out stronger and Soham learns his lessons, stay tuned to ZEE5 and Zee Marathi to know what happens next.